[SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman][P][ALIGN=center][FACE=Times New Roman][SIZE=22pt]我的小闹钟——让我欢喜让我忧[/FACE][SIZE=22pt][/SIZE][/ALIGN][/P][P][ALIGN=center][FACE=宋体][SIZE=15pt]深圳市光明新区光明小学 [/SIZE][/FACE][/SIZE][/FACE]陈胜男[/ALIGN][/P][P][/SIZE] [/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman] 叮零零[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman], [/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]早读铃响了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我像往常一样去班级巡视。孩子们坐得整整齐齐,正在大声朗读课文,但有一个孩子没到。十分钟过去了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]这个孩子还是没到。叮零零,下课了,正当所有同学准备上操时,一个身着格子[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]T[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]恤、牛仔裤,脚穿一双凉鞋的男孩子不紧不慢地踱进了教室。他,就是我班的明星人物——飞扬同学。提起这孩子,班上所有的科任老师无不摇头,校规校纪在他眼里视若无物,不按规定着装,上学迟到,上课扰乱课堂,欺负同学,挑衅老师……这些对他而言已经成为常态,作为一名二年级的学生,整天一幅无所谓、吊儿郎当的样子。[/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman] 孩子天天这样也不是回事[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]![/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]我决定对孩子进行一次家访[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]在家里得知孩子赖床[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]每天叫他起床至少要半个钟,脾气还特别大[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]父母说什么都不听[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]真是为所欲为。获悉这些情况后,我想首先要改变是他爱迟到的毛病[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]作为一名学生[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]不迟到早退这是最起码的要求。当天我和飞扬在家聊了很久[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman], [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我俩聊的很起劲,谈天、谈地、谈他喜欢的东西[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他真是不亦乐乎!临走之前我对飞扬提了一个要求[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“老师希望你从明天起不迟到[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]好吗[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]”飞扬满口答应了。第二天他果然没有迟到[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]踩着铃声进来的[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我很兴奋[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]对他说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“你可真是男子汉[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]说话算话。”飞扬说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“老师我为了不迟到,今天早上都没有吃早餐。”听了我很感动[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]便说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“没关系,老师的早餐在办公室,你下早读的时候去吃。”他说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“不用了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我不吃。”我说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“那个早餐是对你今天没有迟到的奖励。”一听是奖励[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他下课的时候一蹦一跳地跑到了办公室[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]出早操回来看着吃的干干净净的早餐[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我很开心。[/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman] 这样持续了几天[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]飞扬每天早上是不迟到了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]但是都不吃早餐[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我觉得治标并不治本[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]怎么能让孩子主动起床呢[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?[/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][FACE=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] [/SIZE][/FACE][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman]自从家访后[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]我和飞扬的关系有了很大的改善[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我觉得他现在不像一个大魔头了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]而且还开始有点惹人喜爱了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]上课的时候[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他会喊:“老师:你小点声讲话[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]你的嗓子不好”,虽说他扰乱了课堂[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]但是觉得心是暖暖的。今天上课讲到:假如我有一支马良的神笔[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]你会怎么做[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]同学们回答:有的给小树画阳光[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]有的给给残疾人画健康的身体,还有的给汶川的小朋友画间游乐场……飞扬出奇地上课举手回答问题[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我马上叫了他。他说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“假如我有一支马良的神笔[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我会每天给陈老师画一件新衣服[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]让老师每天穿漂亮的新衣服[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]她会很开心[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我也很开心。这个小猴子[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]智商不高[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]情商非常高!同学们都在应和着说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“对!对!对!”[/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman] [/FACE][/SIZE][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman]这些天[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]我天天表扬他[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]凡是有一点优点[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我都表扬他[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]并且给所在的小组加分[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],([/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]以前没有人愿意和他一组[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他每天扣的分比全组人扣的都多[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]现在每组都抢着要他[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]因为他每天所加的分比全组加的都多[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]今天一个孩子喊[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]飞扬你是第三组的别加错分了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]听的我的心[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]美啊[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]![/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]看着他的表情他真是乐啊[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]![/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我俩最近很铁[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]! [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]放学的时候[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我把小猴子叫到我身边[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我就开始叹气[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他问我怎么了,我说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]”最近总是赖床[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman] ,[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]容易迟到,经常被领导批评[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]又没有人帮我[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]怎么办呢?他很仗义的说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“老师我帮你”[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我兴奋的说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“真的吗”[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“真的[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]谁骗人谁是小狗[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman], [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]可是我不知道怎么帮?我说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“我有一个办法,你每天早上起床后给我打电话叫我起床好不好[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他挠了挠脑袋说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“好”我激动的说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“太好了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]明天有人叫我起床了!我不会迟到了!看着我兴奋的样子他也有点得意,问[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]”要几点叫你才不会迟到啊[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我说:“[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]7[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]点之前就可以。”[/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman] 早上[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]6[/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]00[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我就开机了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman], [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]一直把手机放在身边,我怕打不通或者没听到电话孩子会失望[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman], ,[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]一直等到[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]6[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]点[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]55[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]分[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我都有点要泄气了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]我想:孩子的话到底要不要相信[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]?[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]要不要给他打电话呢?我正犹豫呢[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]音乐铃声响起了[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]一看是飞扬妈妈的电话[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]他妈妈说[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]:[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]“也不知道为什么[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]一睁眼睛就喊几点了,快给陈老师打电话[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]不然老师该迟到了。”“我和飞扬比赛,看谁先到班级,赢的一方可以吩咐输的一方做一件事情[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman] [/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]”[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]结果可想而知,我愿赌服输!哈哈[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]![/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][SIZE=3][FACE=Times New Roman]我把原由告诉了飞扬妈妈。飞扬妈妈很感动[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/SIZE][FACE=Times New Roman]其实感动的又何止是她一个人。我也在感动[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]感动着这个小魔头每天给我带来的惊喜[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman],[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]关心和感动。我的小闹钟真是让我欢喜让我忧[/FACE][FACE=Times New Roman]![/FACE][/FACE][/P][P][FACE=Times New Roman][SIZE=3] 其实教育学生的关键就是走进孩子心灵,真诚地理解、尊重和信任学生,做学生信赖的朋友,让学生喜欢老师,创造零距离的师生关系,才能对症下药,让一切问题迎刃而解。[/SIZE][/FACE][/P][P] [/P]